Friday, December 28, 2012

Road To Avonlea


Growing up, my family had favorite sitcoms to watch.  We loved Perfect Strangers, Full House, and The Cosby Show.  Later I learned that Todd loved Hogan's Heros and Baa, Baa, Black Sheep.  As a girl I could not get enough of the Dick Van Dyke Show or The Brady Bunch re-runs.

But, my ultimate, all-time favorite series to watch?  Road to Avonlea, created by Canadian Kevin Sullivan and appearing on the Disney Channel in the 1990s.  The 45-minute episodes are about a farming family called the Kings, growing up in the early 1900s on Prince Edward Island, in Canada.  The series lasted for seven seasons, so viewers truly got to see the children grow up on the screen.  Avonlea is based on the book The Story Girl by Lucy Maud Montgomery, who also wrote the Anne of Green Gables books.  The director, Kevin Sullivan, had created a beautiful mini-series of Anne of Green Gables in the 1980s, and used the same set and many of the same characters when he created Road To Avonlea.  Most of the filming was done in Uxford and Toronto, but some footage was done actually on Prince Edward Island.  When I visited Prince Edward Island in 2003, it was extremely exciting to me to find locations from both Anne of Green Gables and Road To Avonlea.  My favorite?  Having high tea at the White Sands Hotel (actually called Dalvay By The Sea) with my kindred spirit friends, Amy and Jess.

As mentioned above, Road to Avonlea was about the Kings:  Alec and Janet ran the family farm and brought up Felicity, Felix, Cecily and Daniel.  Next door lived Aunt Hetty (a school teacher) and Aunt Olivia (who wrote for the local newspaper and later married Jasper Dale).  Hetty and Olivia raised their niece, Sara Stanley who was about the same age as cousins Felicity and Felix.  Sara was "The Story Girl" because she told stories so well and knew so much about far away places.  Sara had been raised by her rich father in Montreal, until she came to live with her deseased-mother's sisters on Prince Edward Island.  In addition to Alec, Hetty, and Olivia, there was another brother, Roger who only appears on a few episodes because he is a busy geologist in South America.  His son, Andrew appears in the first few seasons of the show while he is living with the King family too.  Of course, we get to know many other townspeople through the King family.  I appreciated how Kevin Sullivan always had the episodes have a connection with the Kings.  We don't ever watch an entire episode about some other family without it connecting to the Kings somehow.  There is an eccentric woman living in the woods that the children call The Witch of Avonlea.  There is a Scottish hotel owner at the White Sands Hotel who mentors Felix King.  A very gruff former soldier named Clive Pettibone moves to Avonlea to teach school when Hetty quits teaching to write novels.  Mr. Pettibone has children of his own who provide new friendships for the Kings.  We get re-acquainted with Muriel Stacy, Marilla Cuthbert, and Rachel Lynde (from Anne of Green Gables) who play major roles in Road To Avonlea.  Marilla Cuthbert even tries her hand at raising two more orphan children (Davy and Dora) who provide some wonderful childhood story lines again once the original King children have grown.

As a girl, I usually watched Road to Avonlea in the living room each Monday night.  Sometimes my brother David would watch them with me and often Mom would peek around the corner of the kitchen while doing the dishes and follow the story line that way.  I was about the same age as Felicity King and David was about the same age as Felix King.  So, stories about Felix were always David's favorite.  David's wife, Julia grew up watching Road to Avonlea in Montana and she now appreciates that David is familiar with the storylines.  I loved all the old fashions, the ways the homes were decorated, the old-fashioned one-room school house, and the innocent fun the children had growing up on such a beautiful island.  The red dirt roads and high cliffs over the water always fascinated me.     

Although, I originally watched the series off the TV, I now have the DVDS and have watched the episodes numerous times.  My husband and I have watched all seven seasons twice now (in our 4 1/2 years of marriage).  Todd likes the show partly because of all the great old farm machinery and antique tools used during the show.  He opens my eyes to a lot of details I had never noticed before.  As a girl, I related most to Felicity.  But, now as a married gal, I relate most to Oliva.  Todd and I joke around that he and I are like Jasper and Olivia because Jasper is sort of a fix-it guy who is resourceful and kind, but doesn't like to talk in front of people.  Olivia is a dark-haired writer who is quite emotional (both when happy and sad) and she loves her husband like crazy.  We can relate.

I think part of what makes Road to Avonlea such an excellent show is that viewers can relate to the characters.  There are so many characters that Kevin Sullivan truly develops in these seven seasons.  Alec King is not only a farmer, but a leader in the community.  He's a father and a husband who is often the peace-maker in the famiy.  He is a man of integrity who reaches out to others with his kindness and wisdom.  His wife, Janet is a dedicated mother who has spunk and wisdom of her own.  She stands up for what is right (including trying to help women get the right to vote).  Janet has the daunting task of dealing with her difficult sister-in-law, Hetty.  Hetty is the eldest and the leader of the King clan and she lets everyone know it.  When I first watched Avonlea episodes with my friend Angie, she could not believe I liked the show because of how awful Hetty acts toward others.  I agree that Hetty has some unacceptable behavior, but if you stick with her, you soften to her.  She loves her family, her town, her island, and her job.  She just doesn't always know how to show it.  And, Hetty learns lessons.  She is teachable.  She is an important character.  Hetty's sister, Olivia is now my favorite character, as mentioned above.  In the early episodes, she gets pushed around a lot by Hetty.  She sort of finds herself in the early episodes and has to defy Hetty at times to do that.

When Kevin Sullivan began Road To Avonlea, I think he was planning Sara Stanley to be the main female character.  She is a very important character, but before long it is obvious that Felicity King is going to develop into the leading role.  Sara is a peace-maker and a story-teller, but the personality that bursts open on the screen is Felicity because of her growth as a person.  She goes from a spoiled, selfish, egotistical young girl to a beautiful, elegant, kind-hearted woman.  She goes from wanting to be a beautiful princess (as most young girls do), to a mom (with dozens of kids), to a school teacher (because all the top students go to teacher's college), to a doctor (she loves the excitement of being one of the first women to attend medical school), to a manager of an orphanage (as she tries to find meaning for her life again after a great loss).  And, then there is the romance in Felicity's life: David Hawes, Edward Ray, Gus Pike, Arthur Pettibone, Stewart McCrae......  great storylines!

Girly storylines not your favorite?  Never fear!  There are plenty of plots about Felix, Andrew, Gus or Davy to satisfy you.  Felix King is an adorable little boy who struggles in school, is too competitive for his own good, gets extremely annoyed by his bossy older sister, and is full of schemes to earn more money!  It seems he is always coming up with some new idea..... that simply gets him in trouble!  He learns and grows and finds his way.  He is very endearing.  By the end, a viewer feels downright proud of him and how far he has come!

The other great thing Road to Avonlea has going for it is the excellent guest stars throughout the series.  Michael York, Christopher Reeve, Peter Coyote, Christopher Lloyd, Treat Williams, and Robby Benson each do an excellent job when they guest star.  The regular actors themselves are fabulous!  In all the interviews I have seen, the actors felt happy on the set and felt like the cast created a second family for them.         

I was sad when the series ended, but I feel just as sad knowing that Avonlea never existed.  It was always a made-up town with made-up characters.  The storyline was created from a novel written in 1911.  It was a happy made-up place.  Some people say to "go to your happy place" in your mind when you need to get away.  When I need to get away, I think of Avonlea.  I think of the white puffy clouds over the yellow wheat fields and the sound of the waves crashing against the high cliffs over the water.  I think of canoes and lobster traps and red roads and horse-drawn buggies.  I think of wild flowers and waving grass, trails in the woods, and a cool glass of lemonade.  I know it's not real, but it is happy and it is peaceful and maybe it is real in my heart. 

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

My top 5 books of 2012


I love to read!

It's not too far into a conversation when I ask someone, "What are you reading these days?"  My mom has a sweatshirt that says, "So many books, so little time!"  I couldn't agree more.  Most of the time, I choose to read novels over summer or holiday breaks.  This is because I have trouble putting novels down!  I devoured The Yada Yada Prayer Group series by Neta Jackson.  I loved The Help by Kathryn Stockett and I read all of the books about the Wortham Family (starting with Julia's Hope) by Leisha Kelly in only days.  If you haven't read any novels by Susan Meissner, they are all excellent as well.   

So, yes, I love novels, but I also love to read people's stories.  I read a wonderful memoir called The Wilder Life by Wendy McClure that had great information for this Laura Ingalls Wilder fan, and the love story of Ree Drummond, which read more like a novel than like true events was fabulous:  The Pioneer Woman:  Black Heels to Tractor Wheels - a Love Story.  And, who doesn't love Candace Cameron Bure (D.J. from the "Full House" T.V. show)?  She's written a very inspiring book called Reshaping It All that truly motivates one to eat right and exercise.  And, then there was an excellent thought-provoking book by Donald Miller called, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years:  How I learned to Live a Better Story.  So, I would recommend all these books!

But, when it comes right down to it, books that have the biggest impact on me are books you find at a Christian bookstore..... ones that teach you a lessson..... ones that help you live your life differently. 
In this post, I want to tell you about MY top 5.  I'll list them off first:
#5:  Made To Crave by Lysa Terkeurst (2010)
#4:  Choosing to See by Mary Beth Chapman (2010)
#3:  Kisses From Katie by Katie Davis (2011)
#2:  Choosing Forgiveness by Nancy Leigh DeMoss (2006)
#1:  Grace For the Good Girl by Emily P. Freeman (2011)      

All five of these books have helped shape me and grow me and refresh me this year.  But, if you only pick up one, please read Grace for the Good Girl by Emily P. Freeman.  While reading this book, it was as though Emily already knew me.  She knew my anxieties, fears, shame, perfectionistic ways, and my struggles to please everyone.  She knew my tendency to hide behind my mask and not live under the umbrella of Grace.  That is not what God wants for my life.  He wants me to experience freedom, joy, peace, and strength.  Believing in Grace makes that possible.  I wrote a blog entry on September 9th about my thoughts about Grace.  Check it out:  http://journalingjennifer.blogspot.com/2012/09/grace-personally.html.  My favorite quote from Emily's book is as follows:
"You are not accepted because you are good.
You are free to be good because you are accepted.
You are not responsible to have it all together.
You are free to respond to the One who holds all things in His hands.
You do not have to live up to impossible expectations.
You are free to wait expectantly on Jesus, the One who is both author and perfecter of your faith."  (Freeman page 137).   

Once God had been working on my own heart to better understand Grace, He sent someone into my life to remind me of the importance of forgiveness.  I struggle to forgive people who have hurt me or my loved ones.  I don't want to be that way.  I know it grieves God when I hold on to unforgiveness.  So, I picked up a book I had read years ago when I was struggling to forgive someone else and I read it again, this time with a new focus.  Choosing Forgiveness by Nancy Leigh DeMoss is about just that - it's about CHOOSING to forgive.  It is a choice.  I was not ready to forgive until I had some quality time with God and some pretty strong convincing from Nancy in her book.  The two choices had never seemed so cut and dry before.... if I choose not to forgive someone then I am choosing to let all the bitterness and junk and yuck stay inside me and fester.  Then that comes out in hurtful ways in my other relationships and in my ability to trust.  If I do not forgive, I am choosing to live with poison inside my heart.  If I DO forgive, I can be cleansed.  I can have a right relationship with God.  I can trust the people around me.  I can think about those people I have forgiven and not feel sick to my stomach or wish bad things to happen to them!  It is a choice.  I choose forgiveness.  Daily.

Kisses From Katie is one of those books you can read over and over again and find some wonderful new nuggets of inspiration each time.  In a nutshell, it is about an 18 year old girl who leaves her "perfect" life in America and chooses to live in Uganda with the 12 children she has adopted.  She runs a ministry called Amazima and has helped numerous children and families in Uganda out of poverty.  She runs a school and provides meals for a huge amount of children.  She runs a sponsorship program for children to be able to live with their families and still attend school.  She sells necklaces made by some of the women who live in a very poverty-stricken area, so they can provide for their families.  But, above all these wonderful, admirable things that Katie has done, shines her heart.  She loves God.  She loves her children.  She loves all God's people.  She is real and vulnerable and able to communicate beautiful thoughts.  Her book is not only about her ministry, but about her journey of faith and all the ways God is encouraging her and loving her and growing her.  When I read it, I was inspired to love the people around me with new fervor.  I was honored that the same God who gives Katie Davis strength and hope and wisdom, is the same God working in my life in Becker.  Katie inspires me to look for God in my life and look for opportunities to serve Him.

Another book that inspires me to see God at work in my life is a book by Mary Beth Chapman called, Choosing to See.  This too was written by an inspiring woman of God who is real and vulnerable and soft-hearted.  She tells her story... from meeting her husband Steven (a Christian singer), to her battle with depression, to her family's decision to adopt children from China, to the reality and pain of losing her youngest daughter in a car accident, and through the whole grieving process and then finding hope again.  It is sad and raw and beautiful and healing all in one book.  I can never expect to understand the true loss that Mary Beth and Steven went through, but I can be inspired by the way they chose to see God in their lives.  They created a ministry to help orphans in China who have medical needs (preventing them from being adopted) called "Maria's Big House of Hope."  I was so inspired by their ministry that I wanted to go to China and volunteer (after going to Uganda to volunteer with Katie Davis, of course).  Instead I bought a happy green sweatshirt with a drawing on the back done by Maria before she died.  It says "SEE" on the front.  I am choosing to see God when times are tough, when times are good, and all the times inbetween.  

The last book I am going to mention is Made to Crave by Lysa Terkeurst.  Personally, I have been struggling to take off the weight I have gained over these last ten years or so!  I have read lots of great books with great advice and I am following some of that advice now (I look forward to my snack of an apple each day).  But, Lysa's book inspired me to think about my weight loss goals as more than just weight loss goals.  I want my body to be a temple where God's Holy Spirit dwells.  I want to fill that holy temple with good, healthy foods that nourish my body and keep me healthy.  I want to exercise my body to bring down my high blood pressure and high sugar levels.  I want positive endorphins rushing to my brain as I exercise and take good care of me.  It can be an act of worship.  God can give me the strength to say no to that brownie and yes to that salad.  He can push me to exercise and stay active.  I need to remember that God cares about every aspect of my life.  I need to be leaning on Him.  He won't fail me.  God can satisfy my cravings.  This book inspires me to let Him.  

HAPPY READING!!