Sunday, November 10, 2013

Amish Proverbs

      I recently finished the book,  Amish Peace, Simple Wisdom for a Complicated World.  It was filled with wonderful devotional thoughts and Amish Proverbs .  I want to share some of those proverbs with you today.

The most beautiful attire is a smile.
     Hearing this proverb made me want to burst out into "You're Never Fully Dressed Without A Smile" from Annie.  It also reinforced for me my belief that natural is beautiful.  And, I am a firm believer in smiling!  A simple smile can brighten someone's day, calm an anxious heart, and spread joy.  

Jumping for joy is good exercise.
      I've been learning about exercise and strength training lately, as I try to be the best me I can be.  But, the times I enjoy moving the most are the times when I do liturgical dance and praise time in my living room!  More joy!  We all need more joy! 

More is caught than taught.
     As a teacher I know this is true!  I teach and guide and my students learn, but when it comes right down to it, what they remember most about second grade is how they felt.  If they felt loved and accepted, then my mission was accomplished!

Trusting God turns problems into opportunities.
     There is nothing quite like total trust and abandonment to the Lord.  Once you trust Jesus as your Lord and Savior, there is no problem too big that you and God can't handle together.  

A heart touched by grace brings joy to the face.
     Grace is one of the greatest gifts God gives His children.  He bestows His grace on us even though we don't deserve it and He teaches us how to give grace to each other.  It is only when I learn to live in freedom and accept grace (rather than beat myself up when I am not perfect) that joy and peace are truly reflected on my face.  That is one of my goals in life.... to shine that joy and peace because of God's gift of grace.   

It's better to have a wife on your team than on your back.
     This proverb just made me laugh as pencil sketches and pictoral illustrations popped into my head!  I strive to be a team player and not a nag.  I guess only Todd could tell you how I'm doing.

Never doubt in the dark what God has shown you in the light.
     Now this proverb I have heard before.  In fact, I had a notecard with those very words written on it taped into my cupboard at school way back in the year 2000 when I began teaching.  I love the truth of this proverb.  There are times when I know that I know that God wants me to do something.  I have a true peace about something specific.  That is when I know God is revealing something to me "in the light."  So, doubting it later is fruitless because I know that I know what God has done.   

Opportunity may knock once, but temptation bangs on your front door forever.    
      This final proverb is very wise.  Life is short.  Make good choices.  Make God choices.  He will help you when temptation knocks.  You and He can work through anything!





A Reflection on Blankets

Isaiah
 A Reflection on Blankets.....
    I have the joy of working in our church nursery on Sunday mornings during Sunday School hour.  What a great way to start a new week!  Two of the kids are Hannah and Isaiah (aren't they dolls?!?!?).  These twins absolutely LOVE their blankets!  They drag them around and cuddle with them and sometimes trip over them!  They ALWAYS have them in sight.  I think Hannah and Isaiah feel cared for and secure in the nursery, but I think their
Hannah

 blankets give them that extra measure of comfort, familiarity and love.  One  can never have too much of that!
      So, I have been reflecting on the "blankets" in my life that bring me comfort, familiarity, and love.  First of all, the love of God covers me like an invisible blanket.  He protects and nurtures me in ways that seem almost as tangible as a blanket.  He is ever-present and always good. 
 



blanket made by Grandma Iverson
     Secondly, the love and support of my family covers me like a blanket.  The next photo is of a blanket my Grandma Iverson made for me when I was a girl.  She made one for most of her 10 grandchildren.  I love how bright and colorful it is.  My Grandma valued crafts and artistic hobbies.  She taught us how to cross-stich and how to use a spool and some yarn to "knit."  I even latch-hooked an owl pillow cover with her.  Fun memories.  So, when I see this blanket, it's familiarity reminds me of
blankets I made for Grandma and Grandpa Alber
 Grandma.  When I wrap myself in it, it reminds me of Grandma's love. 
t-shirt quilt made in Mountain Lake
        It's a wonderful thing, being loved by grandparents.  And, I think grandparents adore being loved by their grandchildren.  I made tie fleece blankets for my Grandma and Grandpa Alber one year.  They were at that age where they did more sitting than moving around.  So, those blankets were appreciated, I know.  Now that Grandma and Grandpa are with Jesus in Heaven, I have the blankets in my own home.  They comfort me and remind me of love.      
Swedish quilting done by Mary Lou

     Another blanket in my life is my blanket of memories.  We all have memories that pop into our minds that make our hearts smile.  Those memories cover us and comfort us and brighten our days.  A tangible way I remember some of those special moments is looking at my t-shirt quiltA couple friends in Mountain Lake made a t-shirt quilt for me (and I got to help!).  The quilt has squares from Medora, North Dakota, from my Up With People tour to Venezuela, from All State Orchestra camp, from our high school performance of Fiddler On The Roof, from All State Lutheran Choir, from attending a Laura Ingalls Wilder pageant in Walnut Grove, Minnesota with my mom, and even from my tap dancing days!  I got to pick the fabric for the quilt, so it is my favorite bright blue!  Talk about feeling comfy and cozy under a quilt full of memories!
John Deere blanket I made for Todd
     When Todd and I got married, we were given a lovely Swedish quilt made by Mary Lou (who is Todd's dad's wife).  To me, that quilt represents the joy-filled day of our wedding.  I just loved being surrounded by family and friends.  I felt covered in love.
     The final picture is one of Todd sitting on our loveseat, in our TV-watching room, covered by a fleece tie-blanket that I made especially for us to share.  We cuddle together under that blanket as we relax and unwind after another busy day.  I adore doing life with this man!  I am so thankful for him.  I love sharing all my "blankets" with him!
      May you be blessed as you reflect on the special blankets in your life today.     

Saturday, October 19, 2013

Dreaming of my Prince....Before I had met him!

Four year old Todd Douglas Sapp

Todd Douglas Sapp






















My husband has a milestone birthday on Thursday!  Yup, my husband is turning 50 years old!  That seems quite unbelievable.  In fact, when we ask strangers how old they think Todd is, they almost always guess that he is in his 30s.  A few months ago, Todd and I were out to eat and he was actually carded!  Someone thought he might be under 21.  That totally made his night!  It's hard for me to fathom that he could be turning 50.  But, I suppose that has something to do with the fact that I am 36.  Yup, my husband and I are 13 years apart.  And, we both had to live through an awful lot of life before finding each other.  There are times we notice that we were raised in different decades.  Little pieces of trivia pop up that we expect each other to know and are surprised when we don't.  But, those things are trivial.  They don't matter.  We are soul mates and we cherish our days together.      
      I had to wait 30 years before I met the man of my dreams.  I was praying for Todd years and years before I met him.  I was dreaming of the man God had chosen for me long before that man was free and available and ready to be loved by me.  I had to be patient and wait for God's perfect timing.  And, that was hard.  In 2002, about five years before I met Todd, I wrote about my hopes and dreams for my future husband.  I love reading it now and seeing all the ways my dreams came true through Todd.  I thank God every day for bringing me my wonderful husband.  I never, ever want to take him for granted.  So, here is what I wrote:

Jesus Is My King....I'm Dreaming of My Prince
(written in July of 2002)
     I am going to marry the most amazing man!  He will be amazing in my eyes.  I will look at him with admiration and love.  I will be inspired by him and encouraged by him and accepted the way I am - Jennifer Ann!  Our eyes will light up when the other walks into the room.  Together we will do wonderful things.
     My husband and I will skip!
     Perhaps we'll watch lightning storms and then lightning storms will be something special instead of something to be afraid of.  We will go for hikes and bike rides.  We'll look at the stars and watch sunsets.  We'll travel together all over the country or world.  We'll see new places and do new things - together!
     We'll read books together and then discuss them.  We'll read the Bible aloud to each other.  We can memorize scriptures together and help keep each other accountable in remembering those scriptures.  
     Perhaps he'll play guitar or piano and we can sing together.  we can praise our Lord together in song.  We can attend concerts together and listen to great music.  
     We will be prayer partners - for life!  I want to pray every day with my husband.  We'll pray about everything.  I can hardly wait to see God in action!
     We can do good things together like helping others - we'll be involved in church together.  Perhaps we'll go visit the elderly together or help with Vacation Bible Schools.  We'll play with kids together.  Perhaps he'll read books to kids and they'll all be around - each one wanting to sit on our laps.
     My husband and I will laugh a lot.  We'll laugh so hard together that it will make me cry.  My husband will think I'm funny.  He'll love the way my eyes glow when I'm happy.  I'll love the way his smile lights up his whole face.
     My husband can help me when I'm not so brave.  He'll kill all the spiders and get rid of mouse traps and he'll fix the cars and help put up storm windows and screens.  He'll love to mow the lawn and while he's mowing I'll be making him a special dessert - perhaps chocolate cake is his favorite too, or brownies, or pies?  I'll do special things for my husband.
     Everyday I will tell my husband I love him.  I will not let a day pass when I do not tell him I love him.  When he's away and we can only talk by phone, I'll tell him I love him right over the telephone.  He and I will talk about everything.  When I'm sad, he'll listen and he'll say what's right.  We'll pray about each struggle.  We'll be flexible and we'll make compromises.  My husband will respect me and adore me and delight in making me happy.  I will delight in making him happy and together we'll just be the cutest, smilyest, happiest couple around!
     Jesus Christ will be at the center of our marriage.  That's one of the biggest reasons why I'm so excited to marry my prince - through my prince I will better get to know my King.  We will learn from one another, encourage one another, and grow together closer to Jesus.  What could be better?
     I'm praying for my prince.  I'm praying that God is preparing him for our life together.  I'm praying that wherever he is, he is close to Jesus.  I'm praying that God will send him to me soon and that he will be the kind of prince that will pursue my heart with integrity, grace, and unconditional love.  May Jesus be his role model.   Amen

Mr. and Mrs. Todd Douglas Sapp (in 2013)

Thursday, October 17, 2013

A New Weigh of Life

Poutine = YUM!
     1) I love to eat!  I love chocolate ice cream, chocolate fudge, monster cookies, Reese's peanut butter cups, Cheetohs, Wheat Thins, Life cereal, cinnamon rolls, sweet potato fries, canadian bacon and pineapple pizza, sweet and sour chicken, Applebee's Crispy Orange Chicken Bowl, Dr. Pepper, mint hot cocoa... get the picture?  I have always been this way.  I have always loved to eat!  I have always loved sugar!  I have always struggled with overeating.
     2) I am an emotional person.  I struggle with anxiety.  I put pressure on myself to be perfect.  I want to please everyone.  I'm an introvert living the life of an extrovert and I get depleted.  So, how do I cope?  I eat.  And, it's usually not carrot sticks!
      3) I am NOT an athlete.  I have never been an athlete.  I have never had much strength or endurance.  I am an expert at excuses NOT to exercise.  You get the idea.
      Add together these three factors and what do you get?  An overweight gal with health issues.  I've been on blood pressure medication for years and have been told to lose weight (about 20 pounds).  I've tried and failed many, many times.  A year ago I was told my cholesterol was too high, so my husband and I quit eating ice cream and I hardly ever ate bread.  I was positive my doctor would be telling me I'd made some great improvements when I saw her in July.  Nope, my cholesterol and tryglicerides had skyrocketed!  Something had to be done.  So, my doctor prescribed Lipitor.
      I was on Lipitor for 10 days.  It was one of the worst experiences of my life!  I couldn't sleep, or if I did I had crazy weird dreams.  I was dizzy all the time and felt sick to my stomach.  I couldn't think straight or make decisions.  My head hurt.  I had zero energy.  And, worst of all, everything made me cry.  I was miserable and scared.
      So, my husband and I made the decision that I needed to consider the poor quality of life I was experiencing and simply quit the medication.  It took days to get back to normal.  It also jump started in me a deep desire to get healthy.  I was determined to finally lose those 20 extra pounds!  I felt driven to exercise every day.  I steered clear of anything sweet or fattening.  My friend Sheryl called it being in "emergency mode."
      I made an appointment with a nutritionist at the St. Cloud Hospital.  She told me about a wonderful resource called plant sterols.  Certain vegetables have plant sterols in them, but a person would have to eat pounds and pounds of them to get any benefit.  So, some smart scientists have infused large amounts of plant sterols into certain foods (specifically Promise Activ margarine, Kashi Heart to Heart crackers, and Village Farm oatmeal).  If a person eats two grams of plant sterols a day, they can improve their cholesterol numbers by 10 to 17 percent!  Sounds good to me!
      In addition to plant sterols, my nutritionist suggested I start eating two tablespoons of ground flax seed meal every day.  I put it on my toast, my oatmeal, and my yogurt.  Plus, she wants me to eat an ounce of nuts a day.  Cashews are my favorite, but almonds and walnuts work well too.  I try to eat only whole grains (instead of white rice and pasta).  I eat organic, sprouted, low sodium Ezekiel bread.  I eat lettuce salads (with my ounce of walnuts) almost every day.  I eat more turkey, fish, and chicken (and less beef).  And, I gave up sugary drinks.  Someone told me that lemon water cleanses your liver, so I have lemon water every day.
      My goal is to exercise an hour a day.  I do a warm up and then walk and run on the treadmill, ride my Aerodyne bike, or follow a Leslie Sansone fitness aerobic walk video.  I have 5 pound weights I lift regularly to try to tone my "Gustin arms".  And, I end with a cool down.  I still don't like to exercise; I'd rather spend my time doing other things.  But, I feel good when I exercise.  Those positive endorphins rushing to my brain make me happier!  So, once I get myself started, I'm ALWAYS glad I did.        
     Remember "emergency mode?"  Well, that lasted for a good two months and I lost eleven pounds!  Woo Hoo!  Then school began.  Once again I was surrounded by snack foods I shouldn't eat.  Once again the stress and anxiety of being a teacher overwhelmed me.  And, once again I let other things get in the way of my exercise time.  September was rough.  October has been rougher.  I have to get back on track or my health will deteriorate more and more.  I need to get to that 20 pound loss goal!
     So, I'm going to write down some tips and statements that have helped me in the past.  Hopefully they will inspire me to get back on track toward success.  And, if you're reading this, maybe these ideas can help you too!

1.  Water, Water, Water!  Drinking water truly does make a difference.  I feel cleaner, healthier, and more energetic when I drink enough water.  I get headaches when I don't drink enough water.  And, drinking water helps prepare me for my afternoon workout session.  Leslie Sansone says it's important to drink water about a half hour before you exercise so that the water can infuse into the muscle before you start working it.  Nikki Carlson has set a goal for herself that she must drink her goal amount of water for the day before she can drink anything fun or sugary.   Bob Harper suggests that everyone drink a large glass of water before every meal.

2.  Practice resistance in your life.  We are a culture so used to getting what we want immediately.  It's okay to deny ourselves what we want!  Hebrews 12:11 says, "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful.  Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained in it."  I try to keep myself disciplined in other areas of my life besides just my struggle with food.  Some examples:  not hitting the snooze button in the morning, practicing piano or violin regularly, exercising regularly, correcting student homework on Friday afternoons instead of Sunday nights and not looking at Facebook when I have other things that need to be done.
     Portion control is also a huge part of resisting to what we want.  After seeing my nutritionist, I was amazed at how SMALL most serving sizes truly are.  Lysa Terkeurst suggests that we talk to God when we are struggling with this issue.  He can be our daily portion.  She tells about a time when she wanted a brownie so badly that she shut herself up in the closet and just cried to God until the feeling went away.  I've never done that.  But, I believe He cares enough that He would fill me up and satisfy my craving.  I just need the discipline to go to Him and not to food.  Psalm 34:8 says, "Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him."

3.  Life is full of second chances, of starting over, of starting fresh.  I have to be okay with that in my weight loss journey.  I may have an Oops day or even an Oops week, but that doesn't mean I should give up!  I need to start anew.  I may get injured or be sick for a while and need to take a break from my exercise routine.  Getting started again, for me, is incredibly hard.  But, the only thing to do is start again, start fresh, start over.  "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me," Philippians 4:13.

4.  Watch out for mindless eating!  Candace Cameron Bure suggests that we ask ourselves these questions next time we are considering eating something in a mindless manner.  Am I:  hungry, angry, lonely, tired, depressed, guilty, PMS, thirsty, stressed, dicouraged, wounded?  Sometimes defining how we are feeling will help us steer clear of eating to cope.  Also, concerning mindless eating, never eat in front of the TV or computer, especially not with an open un-portioned bag of something!  When I binge on cookies or chips, it's usually in front of the TV or computer.  No more!

5.  Be prepared.  It's always easier to grab an unhealthy snack when you're hungry.  So, be prepared with healthy snacks throughout your day.  Clean Eating experts suggest that we eat every 2 to 3 hours.  Weight Watchers suggests that when you come home from the store, you wash and chop your lettuce, clean your vegetables and chop them up and put fruits and vegetables near the front of the fridge so it is the first thing you see when you open your fridge door.
     Along with being prepared, how about just don't have the temptations in your home?  We still have a teenager at home, so I have felt it necessary to have some junk food around, but we have considerably less than we've had in the past.  Sometimes if there is something tempting, I ask him to keep it in his room.  I know that I would never go in his room to take food.  

6.  Protect your exercise time.  I have found that the best time for me to exercise is from 3:30 to 4:30 every day.  I rush home from school and get right into my exercise clothes, not even stopping to read my mail.  Some days I simply can't get home that early, and then my plan is to exercise from 6:30 to 7:30 in the evening.  That means supper has to be early enough to be digested before I start jumping around!  It's all a balancing act.  But, it's important.  I have found that when I exercise regularly, I make better food choices.  Hebrews 12: 1-2 says, "Let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.  Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God."  Nikki Carlson suggests that a person figure out the night ahead when he/she is going to exercise, and write it on a calendar and not let anything get in the way of that plan.

7.  The scale can only tell you a numberLysa Terkeurst writes, "We can step on the scale and accept the numbers for what they are - an indication of how much our body weighs - and not an indication of our worth."  Our worth is measured by who we are in Christ.  I am a child of The One True King!  If I let myself get discouraged by the numbers on the scale, I spiral down and make poor food choices.  I am beautiful just the way I am.  I know many beautiful, wonderful people who would probably love to lose a pound or two and I don't think any less of them.  Why do I think less of myself when success is slow?  1 Corinthian 6:19-20 says, "Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?  You are not your own; you were bought at a price.  Therefore honor God with your body."   

Some helpful resources I've used:
Made to Crave book and devotional by Lysa Terkeurst
Reshaping It All by Candace Cameron Bure
The Skinny Rules by Bob Harper
First Place by Carole Lewis
Thin Within weight loss program
Weight Watchers magazines
Hungry Girl cookbooks by Lisa Lillien
Clean Eating cookbooks and blogs
www.myfitnesspal.com

John Balguy wrote, "Contentment is a pearl of great price, and whoever procures it at the expense of ten thousand desires makes a wise and a happy purchase."
10 pounds lighter and lovin' life


 
             
        

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

CD Blessings

      CD Blessings:
Earlier this year I wrote a blog about the positive experience my Mom and I had creating a CD of violin and piano music together.  You can find that blog at http://journalingjennifer.blogspot.com/2013/04/recording-cd.html


Heading out to make the CD!
   I continue to cherish our experience and the finished product!  Todd and I enjoy listening to it together and I have played the CD for my students in my classroom. 
   Another blessing has been seeing the way that our CD has touched our listeners.  I am writing this blog about some of the encouraging words I've had from friends after listening to the CD.  I want to remember and be encouraged years from now by the words of this blog.
   Mom and I both wanted to be able to give copies of our CD to friends and family members.  I love knowing that my nieces and nephews have this piece of their Grandma Iverson and Aunt Jen to save forever!  I enjoyed being able to give CDs to friends all over the globe!  Angie has one in Spain, Carey has one in Thailand, Anette has one in Norway and her parents have one in Germany, Julia has one in Cherkassy, Ukraine and Pastor Pavel and Tamara have one at our Sister Church in Vatutino, Ukraine!  It can be heard in North Dakota by Pauline or in Colorado by Kathy.  Christin could be playing it in Connecticut while Patty could be enjoying it in Wisconsin!  Exciting! 
   Ladies from our church who have my CD have been so encouraging.  Jan Miller wrote to me, "I was sewing this afternoon and listening to the most beautiful music!!  Thanks to you and your mom.  Love it!"
   Virginia Johnson wrote, "Thanks so much for the CD.  It was so peaceful and familiar songs make it special.  Thanks for all you do for BBC and the Lord."
   Vernelle Stoesz wrote two separate times.  She wrote, "First a BIG thank you for the CD.  We simply LOVE it.  I will listen over and over."  She keeps it in her car so she can listen over and over without having to start at the beginning each time.  Later she wrote, "So enjoyed your CD driving to Elk River and back today.  You and your mom are amazing.  Thanks so much for making it and sharing with me."
   My newest friend, Shannon Lunser wrote, "Thank you for the CD - I'm listening to it right now and LOVE it.  It's such beautiful music."
   Linda Strater (who recently lost her Dad) wrote, "I DID receive your beautiful CD and card!  My brother and I just met on Monday night to finish opening cards and memorials from Dad's funeral.  While we did that, I played your incredible music in the background!  I can't thank you enough for this special gift you gave to me.  I listen to it every night as it brings tremendous peace to me."
   Denise Straw, Elizabeth Norgaard, Becky Kollman, Bekki House, and Terri Mason were all given a copy along with Pastor Rob and Caroline (for Pastor Appreciation Month).  I was so happy to be able to give.
   My friend Amy's mom Cindy was given a copy and wrote, "Jen, thank you so much for the CD.  What a treasured memory for you and your mom.  We listened to it tonight.  I especially like your version of "When the Roll is Called Up Yonder."  All beautiful music...such talent."
   I enjoyed being able to give my CD to Amy, Becca, Jess, and Shawrene as they are regular prayer warriors and friends in my life.  Julie, LuAnn, Tasha, and Sheryl hold special spots in my heart too and I'm glad I could give them a piece of my heart through this CD.
   Todd wanted to give a copy to his parents and to a couple named Alfred and Irene Korfe.  Alfred and Irene had a very positive impact on Todd's faith life as he was growing up.  We hope the music will bless them.
    As mentioned earlier, my CD is in Ukraine with my friend, Julia.  She wrote, "The CD is gorgeous.  It has become my morning music which I listen to while getting ready for work."
   Kathy, in Colorado wrote, "Thank you so much for the awesome CD!  I am completely amazed by your playing - it sounds professional!  I love so many of the songs you did too!  The Gift of Love is the same tune as one of the hymns we sang at our wedding, so it was really cool to hear that one."
   Christin, in Connecticut wrote," Thank you for the CD!  It's great!  You and your mom sound wonderful and must have had a good time recording together.  How fun - thanks!
   What a delightful way to share music and share God's love and share the "something special" that mothers and daughters can have when they create music together.  I'm thankful for my Mom and all the years she has spent helping me practice and accompanying me and taking time to play music "just for fun" with me.  I feel blessed! 

Providing music at a wedding in April

Monday, July 8, 2013

Norman Floyd Iverson, 1910 - 2002

Norman

Norman

My grandpa, Norman Floyd Iverson, was born on October 19th, 1910 in Lignite, North Dakota.  His parents owned a general store and were very prominent people in Lignite.  They were the first to have a radio and the first to own a Ford touring car.  Norman lived in the house he was born in until he left for college.  The concrete house dated back to 1807 and was heated by a furnace using Lignite coal and wood.  The furnace exploded one day when Norman was standing right in front of it.  He was covered in flame and dust and smoke.  He got quite a few burns.  Iversons used gas lamps until getting electric lights.  In an interview done in the 1990s, my grandpa described what it was like for them to get electricity.  He said, "It was very, very exciting!  Electric is much brighter than those little kerosene or gas lights.  And, it was so much easier to see things in a room.  You might go from one room to another, but not have to carry a lamp with you.  But, it was quite expensive to run the lights."
Chorus (Norman is on the right)

Chums (Norman is in the back)
     Music has always been a very important part of Norman's life.  He played saxophone, clarinet, and piano and he sang in a quartet with his friends from across the street.
     Norman loved to hunt and fish with his dad and uncles.  And, he could often be found at baseball games either watching or playing on a team himself.  
Norman is on the left
    Each summer Norman went with his parents to Watson, Minnesota to visit his Norwegian  grandparents and to Noonan, North Dakota to visit his mother's relatives who were farmers.    
     After high school, Norman left Lignite to attend college.  He and his friends from across the street were the first people in Lignite to attend college.  So, from 1928 to 1932 Norman attended Jamestown Presbyterian College, majoring in math, social studies, and music.
Playing saxophone at home




Norman was very involved in the musical productions, including an opera every year.  He played saxophone in the jazz band which played for roller skating events rather than dances.  Dances were not allowed at Jamestown College.  Chapel attendance was required of all students.  Someone always took roll call at chapel.  Sometimes that was Norman's responsibility.  Norman was also the manager of the Chorus.  He had to get the permission of the college president for the Chorus to go on tour each year.  They stayed with host families and sang in beautiful churches across North Dakota.  
Fishing with his dad

Hunting with his friends













     Norman remembers the Stock Market Crash happening while he was in college.  He father was running the general store in Lignite and sales were very low at that time.  He explained, "Many days we got as little as $10 sales the entire day.  Oftentimes that wasn't all money.  Some of it was trade.  For instance, someone would come in with half a dozen eggs and trade it for a quarter pound of sugar or other necessities.  Dad provided food free for a lot of people because they couldn't afford it.  We did stay in business but didn't make any money during that period of years.  We charged to many people and were never paid."
Jamestown College

   The Depression left a deep impact on Norman.  he said, "You never knew what was going to happen the next day.  It was an experience I hope you never have to go through."
     Norman was a teacher during part of the time of the Depression.  He stayed in a place for $3 a month for board and room.  His lowest salary was $90 a month.  During that time he was principal of the high school and taught six or seven subjects in addition to teaching singing.
     Norman was a teacher in Max, North Dakota for three years and then was a teacher, principal, and superintendent of schools in White Earth, North Dakota for two years after that after that.  The following three years he taught Chorus and general business in Minot, North Dakota for three years.
     Norman decided he wanted to get his Master's Degree, so he ventured over to Missoula, Montana one summer where he met the love of his life, Winnifred Bale.  The two of them were married on July 27th, 1940.
Norman and Winnifred Iverson
       The couple settled in Glendive, Montana where Norman continued to teach.  They enjoyed playing in card clubs with other couples.  One summer they went to New York and got to see Babe Ruth and Lou Gehrig on the New York Yankees.  
       While in Glendive, Norman taught general business and vocal music.  The only trouble was that only 16 students signed up for Chorus!  Norman was supposed to have five sections of Chorus.  So, Norman taught his choir the most popular song of the day, "Roll Out the Barrel" and they sang it everywhere they could.  They went into study halls and went to football practice and tried to get people to join.  By Christmas time, the Chorus had 300 members!
        Norman was very dedicated to his teaching and his music.  In fact, his son, Robert, was born while Norman was at school working with a music group.  It was March 14th, 1942.  At first Norman had been told that Winnifred had a girl, so he sent telegrams with the news.  Later, he went to the hospital to see his wife and baby and found out that he had a son!  He sent a new telegram that said, "Sorry, I made a mistake, I'm a boy, Robert Iver Iverson."  Everyone in town heard about the mixup.
       When Robert was two years old, Iversons moved to Terry, Montana for a year where Norman had a superintendent job.  Next, they moved to Fairview, Montana for the next ten years.  Norman was a superintendent and a vocal music teacher and a math teacher.  
       In 1947 Norman and Winnifred had a little girl named Patty.  Sadly, she died of Leukemia when she was almost three years old.  
       In 1949 Karen Jean was born and then in 1953 Mary Florence was born.  

Proud parents of an Eagle Scout

Family of Five

   When Robert was in sixth grade, Karen four years old, and Mary four months old, the family moved
Norman with his folks and kids

to Dickinson, North Dakota.  Norman wanted to open a music store.  He had gotten upset with changes he'd seen in education.  He encountered many parents with poor attitudes in addition to increased discipline problems with students.  He was ready to try something new.
  The Music Store became a huge part of the Iverson's life.  Winnifred helped at the store on weekends.  She was teaching school during the week.  Robert made deliveries and helped in the store.  After a family vacation to Alaska, Robert made a nice looking window display that included elk and caribou antlers from their trip.

Dickinson Music Store

Dickinson Music Store
   While owning the Music Store, Norman became involved in helping the music department at Dickinson State College.  The college would borrow instruments and pianos from the store.  Norman was also very involved with the Tri-State Music Festival held every November in Dickinson.  The festival grew to be quite large and was recognized nationally as being on the cutting edge of music education.  Norman attended the National Association of Music Merchants Convention in Chicago every year.

Dickinson Music Store

Dickinson Music Store
       Norman had a passion for music.  He wanted to help others feel more comfortable with their singing voices too.  So, he would offer classes to help people learn to sing.  He worked with groups of kids who were singing off-key and taught them to listen and read notes.  
       Norman also enjoyed singing in Barbershop Quartets, even into his 80s!
       Norman was a busy man!  In addition to raising his family, running the store, helping people learn to sing, and being involved in the Dickinson State College Music Department, Norman was also an assistant leader for the Boy Scouts, and a member of The Lions, The Masonic Lodge, Eastern Star, Chamber of Commerce, Rotary, and the United Methodist Church.  He was the choir director at church and the Sunday School Superintendent for junior high, high school, and college students.  
With his first grandchild (Patty)
     Norman and Winnifred retired in Dickinson, North Dakota.  They continued to enjoy their community involvement.  They grew a large garden and spent time working with rocks by polishing them into jewelry.  They enjoyed their ten grandchildren.  Grandpa could often be heard boasting about them, much to the embarrassment of the kids themselves!  He was famous for his long speeches he'd give to anyone who would listen.  
Grandpa and me!

Grandpa and Grandma with me on my graduation day
     I'm thankful to have had my Grandpa be an important part of my life.  He believed in me and all the things I could accomplish.  He had high standards and expected me to work hard to try to reach those standards.  He loved to take pictures and appreciated the beautiful scenery around him.  He was proud to be from North Dakota and proud to be an American.  He had a firm handshake and I always knew he was someone important.  Even as Grandpa was living his last days in 2002, he would greet people by looking them in the eye and giving a firm handshake.  That was engrained in him.  I strive to do that now.  A smile and confident handshake.....  I look forward to smiles and handshakes from my Grandpa when I see him again in Heaven someday.      


Sunday, July 7, 2013

Tracing the Family Roots



       My husband and I just returned home from a trip to Prince Edward Island and Nova Scotia.  We met a group of French Acadians there who work at a Historic Acadian Village.  Each of them are direct descendants of the original people who founded the village.  These people are building dory boats the way their ancestors did.  They are fishing for lobster using the same techniques.  They are walking upon the same ground as the people who dreamed of having children and great-grandchildren walked.  They know where they came from.  That experience got us to talking.  Where do we come from?  How far back do we know our own history?  Time to trace the family roots.....


Mary Bearfield

Samuel Bale



      Let's start with my dad's side of the family.  His mom, my Grandma (Winnifred) was the ninth of eleven children.  Her parents were Mary and Samuel.  Samuel was born in 1856 in England.  He grew up on a farm and became a farmer.  He loved to read and talk about politics.  He read books about law and helped people  the way a lawyer would.  He had sixteen children, five by his first marriage and then eleven after he married Mary Bearfield in January of 1899.  Samuel was a strict father who demanded silence on Sunday afternoons.  He was seldom home because he was busy working.  He and Mary had a home in town and a home on the farm.  Some of the time, Samuel lived alone on the farm while his wife and children lived in town.
     Mary Bearfield was born in 1876.  She had been a teacher before meeting her husband and she taught again later when her children were in school.  She did needlework, sewing, and quilting.  She helped tutor the neighbors in math and foreign languages.  Mary was also a poet.  She was very close to her sister Minnie who never married.  Minnie's nickname for Mary was Frankie.
      Mary and Samuel had eleven children:  Dwight, Gertrude, Helen, Sanford, Katherine, Edith, Stanley, Robert, Winnifred, Constance, and Mills.  Here is a picture of Mary and Samuel later in life. 
Samuel and Mary Bale

     My dad's dad (Norman) was an only child to his parents Florence and Iver.  Florence's parents came from Bienne, Switzerland.  Their names were Fred and Marion Wissbrod.  They came to America in 1865 in a sailboat.  They lived in Breckenridge, Minnesota and then in 1871 they moved to Erhard, Minnesota.  They came to America to homestead available land.  Fred and Marion had thirteen children and Florence was the eighth child.  Florence was born in Erhard on January 28th, 1881.
     Iver Iverson was born in Watson, Minnesota.  His parents were Norwegian.  Both he and his future wife Florence moved from Minnesota to North Dakota before they met.  They both attained land through the Homestead Act near Flaxton, North Dakota.  Their land was eight miles apart.  Iver ran a restaurant in Flaxton and Florence worked for him there.  Florence lived with her sisters Martha and Bertha before she and Iver were married on March 6th, 1907.  
     Iver and Florence bought a general store in 1909 and ran that for many years.  Iver was very dedicated to that store.  He also loved to hunt and fish.  Florence enjoyed baking, sewing, quilting, and tending to her flower and vegetable garden. 
Iver is on the far left.  Norman is in the back.


Iver and Norman loved music!





   

Florence and Iver Iverson

Coming soon.... 
Information about my mom's side of the family.  Tracing the family roots....